Nice Guy, Friend Zone

Hey guys,

So todays topic is going to be the "Nice Guy, Friend Zone". Hence the title. You can browse the world wide internet and find many questions of poor guys who are stuck in the friend zone with the girl or even guy (have to put that in there these days, never know) that they like. Well bud I have some bad news for you, the odds are you are in the friend zone because you are the "Nice Guy" in their life.

Well bud you can look at this in two ways.

1. You are the best friend. Good this means you can be invited to slumber parties, help give relationship advice, and be there for when they need to practice. You are also very handy because when they need you to apply skin lotion to, hopefully her, back. All this is pretty good because then you get to be close to her/him. Then you become the stable person in their life. Always there for them. Be careful though because this could also be known as the "obsessive gay best friend".
2. On the other hand. You want more then being the best friend. So your going to have to let go. It'll be hard. Like quitting a drug. But in the end you will be "winning" as our friend Charlie Sheen would say. If you pull away and show them that you are not always there for them they will miss it and realize that your the person they want in their life. So in a way its reverse physiology. Be the bad ass friend. Not all girls go for the nice guys, they take advantage of them. Flirt with her best friend. Show her she is not the only one out there. This will drive her nuts and she will come back to you and be all over you. 

If this works for you awesome! If it didn't and you are still the Nice Guy, Or still in the Friend Zone. Grow some balls, and find a new chick. There are tons out there. You waste your time on someone, who is not worth it, even if you think they are worth it, their not. Find some one better and who will treat you the same way! Don't be the push over. You have balls. Use em.

Thats it for reality,
The Realist